A: Best to inform the detective that you do not wish to proceed any further with the case. If your ex has been arrested, it gets a little more complicated as resources have been expended. If you gave a sworn verbal or written statement, law enforcement or the prosecutor may pressure you, especially if your ex has a lengthy criminal record. They may even threaten you with filing a false police report or with perjury. So, don't try to change your story of what happened. Instead, insist on completing a Waiver of Prosecution. As a victim, you do have rights. If it gets too difficult to remove yourself from the case, hire a lawyer to speak on your behalf. Good luck!